Monday, December 15, 2008, 7:41 PM
for a long tyme i hav had an opinion on maturity tat i hav generali kept to myself... i suppose i hav been reluctant to share my thots on tis subject bcoz everi1 has their own point of views...so yeah...bt wt made me wana post tis is bcoz i had a lil chat wit my colleague on maturity da otha dae while we overheard our boss talkin to a client over da phone...dey were talkin bout actin/tinkin maturely b4 we put our hands or werds to anithang/ani1...hell its TRUE! infact there's tis sayin "tink b4 u act" or "tink b4 u speak"...
im beginnin to tink tat da foundation for maturity is da realization of which we were taught since we were young by our parents...we cnt control wat reali gonna happen to us ryte...bt da only thang we cn control is da response to what happens to us...correct?
take for an example, uve known a person for a veri long period of tyme...wen sudd tat person did sumthang tat upsets u...u cnt kip quite juz like tat ryte? if u were to ask ard, ure definitely told to either voice dem out or juz let thangs b...bt both has its own pros n cons...if u were to voice it, da person mite nt accept wt uve said...whereas if u let thangs b juz like tat, da person will NVR noe da mistakes dey hav made...c, da response is wt tat will make us hav a sense of maturity...coz its either tat we accept da outcum of da person disagreein wit wt we've voiced out...or accept da fact tat da person will nvr change n thangs mite b repeated in future since we chose nt to tell dem...
anotha example wud b da new malay movie, MUALLAF...nt all cn accept tat kinda movie u noe...da severe critism their side had received on yasmin ahmad's films r simply from da pple hu r narrow-minded! pple hu cud accept tat kinda movie r those hu r reali aware of wt happens in lyfe...its juz hw u accept thangs tats been goin ard u c...whereas for those hu r nt into tis kinda films, mayb da show is reali reflectin on dem which dey dun admit it? hah! terasa la tu...poor thang!
ok, on a lil side track...i m soo freakin happy coz i cn fit back into my old jeans again! *giggles* i tried wearin it few mnths back bt DEY DIDN’T FIT ryte! dey were more snug den usual! den i did da blamin thang...on myself of coz! for puttin on wgt! heh. bt nt animore nw! *smilin frm ear to ear* its hard to maintain tis kinda wgt...coz i cn easily put on n lose it bk again n again...adooiii!
fri, was Dian's 6th anni...it oni feels like it was yest i started my veri ferst dance trainin =) i miss da old tymes...esp wit haba, zila, ina, abg yazid, abg amin, abg izwan, ashrin n kak lenny ard...its been 6 amazin and wonderful yrs togetha...tho i hav to admit it wasnt a smooth ride for all of us...went to celebrate it at ecp afta werk...n im soo nt gd in charade ok! da one hu chose me tat nyte, mmg BASTARD! hahaha! den me, iffah, cipah, dee, nad gong, hani n zila ended up wit da dirty-secret session til 3 am...haha! so gerls, those thangs shud b kept btwn US oni eh for goodness sake! HAHA!














sat, went to cik zul's new born baby gerl cukur rambot wit mama...da baby gerl reali stole my heart! she's one cute chubby lil gerl wit tis cute lil dress on...sigh. (10x) juz look at those cheeks!

yest, it was twilight wit fiq...oh, hw i love Edward Cullen! suck my blood pls Edward! HAHA! n everi1's crazy bout it! i reali thot tat Robert Pattinson was a v excellent Edward...my fren read da book n he said da book is wae much beta...bt im nt a real bookin readin type as it takes me forevr to finiz 1 chapter ok...heh. i gt distracted easily...bt den, i dun regret watchin it yest...n i tink there were sum criousli funny parts! esp, wen Edward suddenly introduces himself to Bella durin da biology class...hah! n fiq juz got sick of me tellin him hw charmin Edward is...=p

mama juz got tis part-tyme job at bukit merah thru mak adi, doin survey calls...manz, its totali nt an easy job i tell ya...coz i myself dun like to gt tis kinda calls...heh. nvrtheless, all da best mama...i love u!
n i juz hope i dun nid to cum bk to werk durin da hols...oh pls.